Hi, Yvonne Dayan, Wishing you  Happy Holidays, sharing with you how to transform loneliness into Happiness and enjoy this season even when were alone

What if you could establish for yourself new parameters of how to spend the holidays,

what it you could Make the decision now to enjoy as never before and commit to finding that joy within you?

Here is how to overcome :

  1. the depression,
  2. self-pity,
  3. the disillusion, and
  4. the sadness of finding ourselves alone,

Be it because

  • we are far from our family,
  • you lost your job,
  • divorce,
  • you got sick
  • you lost money
  • you are separated from the love of your life,
  • and even if you are surrounded by loved ones, but feel lonely inside.

There is a way to turn all that around beat loneliness and enjoy this season to the fullest.

I’m talking about setting the RIGHT EXPECTATIONS.

Have you noticed that people tend to expect things to go badly? to go wrong? to feel bad? and think it was bad last year so it will be so this year?

That’s because the holidays box us into old conditioning that sometimes make us feel lonely. But that conditioning can be changed by creating a new conditioning.

What I call a RIGHT EXPECTATION;

Maybe like me, you’ve heard it said that an expectation is a premeditated resentment, so with this type of definition who wants to set any type of expectation… But let’s define expectations a different way

An Expectation is the way you direct your mind towards what you want to experience and do not let your mind take you where you do not want to end up.

So I propose that you change your paradigm and take on a new Set of Powerful Expectations, for these holidays… 

Like.. 

  1. Expecting to enjoy every present moments
  2. Expect to meet new people
  3. Expect to relax to reflect on your year
  4. Expect to appreciate the good things around you
  5. Expect to multiply your happiness, your health, abundance
  6. Expect to be focused on what you want
  7. Expect to explore your creative side
  8. Expect to renew and Roll out a new version of yourself this coming year as my book: “THE POWER TO REINVENT YOUR LIFE” prescribes and live our max!

 

Then… don’t be passive…  instead.. be pro-active with these expectations..

The holidays are times where billions of people are celebrating

Get out, try new things, and act in ways according to the outcome you’d like to see

This is a time of the year when we all have the opportunity to give a little.

So fill with of joy and love those around you, including family, friends, neighbors, companions, and coworkers.

Especially share with those most in need who have less than you, and you will see loneliness vanish! Share with your animals who give you so much love all year round!

  • Expect the Best, Plan for the worse, and prepare for the unexpected and fabulous things to come.

You set these type of positive expectations  and you will overcome loneliness and feel good regardless of the outcome you get….

And next….

What things can you add to my list of powerful expectations?

please share it with us right here, we’d love to hear your thoughts…

and always…   Live from Your InnerForte…

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